May 14, 2021
Marvin Humes says: I love having a son, I was outnumbered by girls for years but I let Rochelle be the strict parent
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MARVIN Humes says he loves having a son after years of being "outnumbered" by girls - and admits he lets wife Rochelle be the strict parent.
The JLS star, 36, and Rochelle, 32, "completed their family" with son Blake in October, a little brother to daughters Alaia-Mai, seven, and Valentina, four.9Marvin Humes says having a son has stopped him being so 'outnumbered' by girlsCredit: Instagram 9He and Rochelle Humes are also parents to Alaia-Mai, seven, and Valentina, four
Speaking to Fabulous, to encourage people to share their family recipes ahead of Onken Natural Set’s Family Recipe Day on Sunday, Marvin says: "Having a son has definitely changed the dynamic, 100 per cent.
"My house is full of unicorns and rainbows and glitter and dolls. And it could be that again with Blake, who knows, but I’m definitely outnumbered with the girls in the house.
"If I want to watch the football, I’m normally relegated to another room, but now I’ve got backup with Blake who’s definitely a Chelsea fan.
"So when me and Blake are sitting there watching the football, I’ve got a bit more of a say now, which is good."9Marvin spoke to Fabulous as part of his partnership with OnkenCredit: Onken
With three kids and much-loved dog Ginger the Cookapoo, Marvin says we won't be getting any more Baby Humes announcements in the future.
He says: "We’re definitely stopping now, we’re so lucky we had a boy last. We never take for granted that we’ve got three healthy, wonderful kids who bring us so much happiness.
"We’ve got a dog at home as well so the house is always very, very lively. I think we are definitely family complete now for sure."
I’m definitely outnumbered with the girls in the house. If I want to watch the football, I’m normally relegated to another roomMarvin Humes36
Marvin admits Rochelle, who found fame in bands S Club Juniors and The Saturdays before becoming a TV presenter, is definitely the "strict parent".
He says: "The hardest part is being strict, especially with the girls, Roch is definitely the stricter one most of the time.
"When it’s bedtime and they don’t want to go to bed, and my girls look at me with those big eyes and say ‘Daddy can we have another half an hour?’ it’s hard to say no to their little faces.
"So I’d say being strict with the kids is probably the toughest. You have to be firm but fair."9Their son Blake was born in OctoberCredit: Instagram
With a JLS reunion tour booked for later this year, Rochelle's gig on This Morning and a joint role for the couple presenting The Hit List, having a baby during lockdown gave the parents a welcome break to bond with him.
Marvin says of lockdown: "It’s definitely been hectic but it’s been amazing. When Alaia was born, Roch only had five or six weeks’ maternity leave then she was back with The Saturdays.
"With our first two, we were both back to work quite quickly after they were born, me especially.
"Whereas with Blake we’ve been around for pretty much every day of his life, which is amazing, spending that quality time with him, he’s seven months now.
When Alaia was born, Roch only had five or six weeks’ maternity leave then she was back with The SaturdaysMarvin Humes36
"We’ve had no choice to be at home a lot more than we usually would have been, but those moments you never get back.
"It's been a lot more full-on at home. The whole homeschooling thing was different, I was wearing a headteacher hat and a Dad hat and getting used to that was challenging, but everyone was in the same boat so we just did the best we could given the circumstances.
"Most importantly, we spent a lot of quality time together, so we’ve absolutely loved it.
"Because Blake is a lockdown baby, he’s quite clingy and if he sees anyone new he’s not used to it. But that’s also lovely because he’s all for me and Roch and his sisters."9Lockdown has allowed the busy working parents much more time with Blake as a babyCredit: Instagram 9Marvin says it's important to make time for date night once a fortnightCredit: Getty
X Factor alumni Marvin and Rochelle have one of the strongest relationships in showbiz, having first met when she interviewed him for a TV show aged 16.
They started dating in March 2010 and moved in together three months later, getting married with a lavish ceremony at Blenheim Palace in 2012.
As any parent knows, it can be hard to get alone time, but for the Humes' that's a priority.
When you become parents and kids take over your entire world, you don’t want that to affect your relationshipMarvin Humes36
Marvin says: "We had our first date night last month, we went into town to a restaurant which was amazing, Roch’s mum did babysitting duties.
"It was nice to be out just the two of us; we always said how important date nights are.
"When you become parents and kids take over your entire world, you don’t want that to affect your relationship, in terms of making sure you put time aside for you guys as well.
"The most important thing for those children is that their mum and dad are happy in the relationship. I think that’s super important for the whole family, that your parents spend time together alone.
"Obviously we’ve been restricted the last year, but before that we’d always make a point of having time to ourselves, just to be a couple. We try and do something together once a fortnight if we can."9JLS, pictured from left to right in 2010, Jonathan JB Gill, Marvin, Oritse Williams and Aston MerrygoldCredit: Getty
Last year, JLS announced their sell-out reunion tour, which is now set for 30 dates across the country.
It's been pushed back twice due to coronavirus, but Marvin "really hopes" their current dates in October/November can go ahead, with the dad-of-three also in the studio recording new music for the band.
He says: "It’s no secret that me and the boys are brothers. We’re one of the few bands who genuinely get on and love each other.
"When we split up, we kept in contact more so than another band who have called it a day.
It’s no secret that me and the boys are brothers. We’re one of the few bands who genuinely get onMarvin Humes36
"We’re always spending time together, the four of us with our kids are our partners, all of the JLS kids call each other cousins and we’re all uncles.
"They’re really close and we can’t wait for one day at The O2 when we can bring our kids out onto the stage.
"We started back in 2007, that’s 14 years ago, we were kids then.
"Fast forward and I’ve got three kids, Aston (Merrygold)’s got two, JB (Gill)’s got two, Oritse (Williams)’s got one, that’s eight kids between four of us which is amazing. So it would be a nice moment between the four of us."9Marvin says JLS are his 'brothers' and the kids call each other 'cousins'Credit: Getty 9The kids are also friends with Holly Willoughby's kids and Alesha Dixon's eldestCredit: Rex
As well as their JLS cousins, Marvin and Rochelle's girls are friends with Holly Willoughby's kids and Alesha Dixon's daughter Azura, seven.
Marvin says: "It’s not about being celebs, they’re just Roch’s friends and it’s nice to be invited to birthday parties and things like that."
Marvin has partnered with Onken to encourage the nation to share their Family Recipes, as part of Onken Natural Set’s Family Recipe Day on Sunday, May 16.
He says: "Growing up I had the best of both worlds with Caribbean food and the more traditional British meals.
"Rochelle’s a great chef, she’s always very adventurous in the kitchen. With the kids we like to keep things fairly simple, my main dish is my chicken tikka masala skewers, you can do it in 15, 20 mins.Most read in CelebrityBIT RICH'Hypocrite' Meg uses royal titles she 'doesn't care about' to promote herselfTRESSED TO IMPRESSReal-life Rapunzel has grown her 6½ft long hair since she was fiveWEIGHTY ISSUEPeople say my husband’s too hot for me as I’m plus size -I know I’m beautifulMUM TUMI was told I was lazy, fat & needed a tummy tuck when I shared my post-baby bodyBALLS UPMum self-diagnoses cancer and is 'mortified' after asking GP for prostate examTOY JOYMy kids chose to live with their dad so I replaced them with 9 reborn dolls
"We are quite diverse on what we cook at home. Most of the time it’s all about what’s most convenient, with three kids running around and a dog.
"Rochelle definitely she does most of the cooking. I always do breakfast at home, that’s my meal to cook for the family, then when Roch is out it’s my turn to take control with dinners."
Those who share their legend-dairy recipe by Sunday could be in with a chance to win a video cookalong with Marvin. Find out more at onken.co.uk.Millions of Brits use family recipes with 54% cooking favourites handed down by older generations
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Heartstopping moment cop saves suicidal girl from jumping off overpass
POLICE have released footage of the heartstopping moment officers saved a suicidal girl from jumping from an overpass.
Bodycam video shows the unidentified teenager, 17, had climbed over the barrier and let go of the rail before a deputy grabbed her arm.5Officers saved a suicidal girl from jumping off an overpass in Florida on SundayCredit: Flagger County Sheriff's Office 5The unidentified teenager, 17, had climbed over the barrier and let go of the railCredit: Flagger County Sheriff's Office
Officers from Flagler County sheriff’s office were called to the I-95 in Florida at around 6am on Father's Day.
The girl is said to have told her family: "I can’t do this anymore."
After closing the road cops managed to handcuff her to the barrier before the girl was taken to safety on a fire ladder.
Police recruited deputy Laura Jenkins to help with the rescue after learning the teen preferred to speak with females.5Officers from Flagler County sheriff’s office were called to the I-95 in Florida at around 6amCredit: Flagger County Sheriff's Office
The sheriff's office said in a statement: "Deputy Jenkins was negotiating with the juvenile, letting her know she’s there to help her, when the juvenile let go of the rail to jump.
"Deputy Jenkins immediately grabbed her hand before she could fall and secured her to the rail with handcuffs."
Palm Coast Fire Department Lt. Patrick Juliano said: “Several times while we were there she let go of the overpass but the deputies upon the bridge never once let go.”
Sheriff Rick Staly added: “This is an outstanding rescue by all agencies involved.
"The quick response and combined efforts of FCSO deputies, Crisis Negotiations, Communications Center, Fire Rescue, and the deputies holding the juvenile’s hand saved a life today."5Cops spoke with the girl for an hour before she was taken to safety on a fire ladderCredit: Flagger County Sheriff's Office 5The girl is said to have told her family: 'I can’t do this anymore'Credit: Flagger County Sheriff's Office Most read in NewsSHOOTOUTMoment woman, 19, killed by cop near Juneteenth parade after shooting at officerDEADLY 'EXPLOSION'Springfield oxygen tank explosion in Massachusetts 'leaves one man dead'DOUBLE MURDERDad found murdered alongside wife leaving son orphaned as man, 52, quizzedJARRING SIGHT Tucker Carlson accuses Don Lemon of having a 'symbol of hate' in his kitchenDON THE ATTACKTrump has 'NOT conceded' 2020 election and teases 2024 presidential runRACE FIGHTSeattle Pride event slammed for charging white people $50 'reparations fee'
Sheriff Staly added: "Their training in de-escalation techniques and being able to talk to someone who’s threatening to take their life is remarkable.
"I commend all the men and women who stepped up for this child’s life today.
"Someone’s daughter was saved on Father’s Day, and I hope she receives the help she needs.”
If you or someone you know is affected by any of the issues raised in this story, call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 800-273-TALK (8255) or text Crisis Text Line at 741741.